About me: I am a genuinely sincere, open-minded, adventurous and fun loving sexually dominant gentleman of 49 years. Sexual dominance is much more than a role I play, it is a part of my nature that I came to understand, accept and embrace more than a dozen years ago after keeping it buried for far to long. Since then I have actively explored D/s and BDSM from the mild to the wild and enjoy it at any level a partner is wanting or willing to go. I am experienced, creative and imaginative and the erotic and sexual are very much a part of my dominant nature. Barking commands, belittling a partner or trying to bully her into submission is not my style. I am much more inclined toward touching my lips to an ear and whispering, sometimes stern and demanding, other times soft and seductive. To be given a partners submission is a gift greater than any other, a testament to her trust in me and as such, will never be taken for granted and will be given less respect than I myself would expect from her in submission to me. I also believe that a submissive partner's needs and desires are of no less importance than my own. While I may take what pleasure I want, I get no less pleasure from satisfying a partners desires and exploring her fantasies. I am equally content leading someone on their first steps into exploring submission, with patience, understanding and kindness as I am with someone into more intense bdsm play and wanting to push their limits much further. But, regardless the level of play, I live by those to often ignored words, safe, sane and consentual. *A note regarding pain - I am not a sadist and I don't get off on inflicting excesasive pain for its own sake, but have no difficulty going to most any level that a submissive desires to go or is willing and wanting to be pushed. What I do enjoy is blending pain with sexual stimulation that, when done properly, increases pleasure significantly. It is a facet of BDSM that has always fascinated me that I have explored in depth. In search of the 'ultimate orgasm'? Limits and boundaries will always be respected and no does mean no I am seeking a submissive women any age or experience level for an ongoing 'intimate friendship'.
I am interested in: Anal Sex; Ass Play; Blindfolds; Bondage; Breast/Nipple Torture; Chinese Balls/Ben Wa Balls/Anal Beads; Collar and Lead/Leash; Depilation/Shaving; Dilldos (Handheld & Strap-ons); Discipline; Domination; Feathers; Fisting; Gangbangs; Hair Pulling; Handcuffs/Shackles; High Heels; Humiliation; Lace/Lingerie; Latex; Leather; Master/Slave; Masturbation; Mutual Masturbation; Oral Sex; Pain; Pantyhose/Stockings; Power Exchange; Retifism (Shoes or Boots); Rimming; Role Playing; Sensory Deprivation; Spanking/Paddling; Talking Dirty; Tickling; Toys; Vibrators;